For the last few months I’ve been back at Harnham Monastery, nestled in the gently rolling hills of Northumberland, England. Sheep and cows graze upon green fields, and the sun plays hide and seek between the clouds (mostly hiding). The monastery is smaller in space than other monasteries, and the area around it is quiet (except for the cows and sheep).
I came here to support a friend, but I’ve been supported here in learning much about myself and Buddhist practice. While there were no great bolts of insight, I did see into a few things in a slightly clearer manner.
First was dealing with loneliness. A lot of time to myself initially left me seeking distraction to fill the time alone. Theres not much distraction available at a monastery: No music, no tv, no eating after noon. I started doing a lot of walking. While this helped some (and also helped me lose ten pounds in the process), being with the loneliness, feeling it in the body and offering compassion seemed to help the most. I’m still learning.
It wasn’t all loneliness, and interactions with others became another practice. It’s funny how even platonic relationships can throw a mirror in your face and show you where your rough edges are. Previously unnoticed aspects of yourself and habits are revealed. “Really? Have I been doing that all along?” It’s a process that never ends, I think.
Also was the realization that there is no ideal time in the future when I’m going to “really get on with my practice”. The time is now, and the practice is happening right now, whether I “really get down to it” or not. At least that’s the feeling I have these days. To paraphrase John Lennon, practice is happening while you’re busy planning your practice.
Yes, there were other lessons as well. Some I’m still processing, some personal, and some that just don’t lend themselves to being blog topics. For as much time as I spent here, I suppose this blog entry is pretty short. Much of what goes on at monasteries doesn’t seem exciting in the standards of the world outside, but I assure you it was time well spent.
So enjoy some of the pictures below, and may your own lessons continue in a beneficial way.
So nice to hear from you. Your photos are beautiful–some of them otherworldly, misty, and calm and some others that bring a smile. Cute toes!
It does sound like time well spent.
Much metta
Karen
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Thanks Karen seems like staying in beautiful places just needs to be done in bare feet.😄 Hope to see you both in December. I’ll be in the area for the month before I head to Abhayagiri for winter retreat.
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Missing your posts so glad to catch up with you.
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Thanks Susan. Hope to catch up with you in person sometime in December!
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Wonderful to hear from you! And with such stunning photos! It’s good to know that Harnham has provided a nourishing experience. I hope we’ll see you at Temple Forest Monastery some time soon. Maybe at kathina time?
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Thanks Dorothea. This fall I’ll be at Tisarana until November when I’ll visit Mom before heading to the west coast. I don’t think I’ll make it down to TFM this time. Maybe there’s a group coming to Canada for T’s Kathina?
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Glad to hear had a fruitful summer. I also find your photography exceptional, thanks for sharing.
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Thanks Tom – it’s easy to take good pictures in such beautiful scenery!-)
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Small things matter. Thanks for sharing. Your photos are so artful and evocative. Beauty and moodiness and life. For me, practice all around, for me to open to with as much stillpoint energy as i can be present for. Lots of car camping and hiking and backpacking in to wilderness, solo and with partner/friends. Much time with Pacific Hermitage. May ease and clear insight come to you. Peace.
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Thanks, Holly. Wishing you peace as well, and please say hello to all at the PH. I’m looking forward to going out there in December!
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Love the photos! The sheep remind me of the ones in the movie “Babe”.
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“Baaah Ram Ewe…to thy fleece thy clan thy sheep be true!”
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Hey! Great to see you posting again. The photos are so lovely, it’s relaxing to look at them.
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Thanks Sharon, looking forward to seeing everyone in Dcember!-)
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Your words resonated. Loneliness is a big one for me too. The pain of it sometimes feels unbearable. ð … A work in progress… ð
Beautiful pics!
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Loved your pictures! I really miss England!
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