Tonight I fly to Delhi, continuing the adventure. A few years ago I began planning this voyage, which started as simply a longer trip to India. Over the years and in planning, it grew to the journey it has become. I added on the winter retreat at Abhayagiri, which then meant that I would start six months of India in April, staying through the hottest months of the year.
I wasn’t ready for that much adventure.
So I added a few stops in between, and other stops added themselves. The journey has grown, and I’ve thoroughly enjoyed each step so far. The ties that I have made and strengthened, and the lessons I’ve learned even now have made the trip worthwhile already.
So now the time has come to head much further east. I know some have concerns about my safety, and some can’t imagine why I’m going there in the first place. So I’ll offer a quote I found on my friend Tom’s blog:
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
So now at 50, I’m without a job, a home, a car, etc.. The safe harbor is doing what I’ve always done, and even when I return to the US, the adventure will continue but in a different way.
There have been so many people that have inspired this trip for me, and continue to do so. Friends that have given up their secure jobs and life to ordain, emigrate, travel, or even just change their approach to what life is for. Friends who instead of saying “I can’t”, said “well….why the heck not?”.
For example, I’ll include a link to one of my friend Tom’s posts here. It’s about traveling at any age. Of course, it’s not just about travel, but about living one’s life without regrets. As Thoreau aptly wrote:
“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.”
I will continue to blog from India, and the adventure will continue. It may be a few days until my next post. In the meantime, dear readers, what, if anything, will you regret twenty years from now? I wish for you sweet dreams that come true.